Every two weeks, I share my thoughts about investing, career transitions, meaningful work, parenting, living intentionally, and other topics that engage me. I'm in my fifties and still trying to figure stuff out.
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This newsletter explores investing, career transitions, parenting, and other topics that engage me. You'll receive a shiny new edition in your inbox every two weeks.
None of my writing should be considered advice, investment or otherwise. I learn best through the writing process and conversations with others. In that spirit, I'd love to hear your thoughts.
Thank you for joining me at “Beyond the Cove.” Knowing that you might read my words inspires a more serious effort. I’m grateful for your interest, attention, and partnership in this process.
At this time of year, in the final edition, some reflection feels inevitable. But especially this year. 2022 has been one of the most transformative years in my adult life.
Professionally, I pivoted dramatically, leaving the safety of >25 years in institutional equities, a world I knew well, for a leap into the unknown. By April, I joined Circa, an early-stage proptech startup focused on reinventing rent, as COO. The work is dynamic, challenging, and meaningful but also fraught with existential risk.
And on the personal side, I haven’t felt better in decades. Since late summer, I’ve been drinking A LOT less. I’m exercising regularly. I’m also sleeping much better, and most days, I wake up early, without an alarm, feeling rested. It also helps that I’ve lost 25 pounds from my peak weight in late 2019.
To be clear, it’s not like I have anything figured out. There’s plenty of work still to do. Just ask my kids.
Still, I felt a profound and positive mindset shift this year. It was as if I finally had a decent set of tools. I'm sharing what worked for me in the hope it might help others.
Three Levers
More than anything else, these three activities have helped tremendously in the past year: conversations, writing, and taking action.
A Mindset Shift
All these approaches helped me ask myself tough questions and reflect, leading to an overdue change in perspective. The hard work exposed the absurd reality that I seemed focused on some elusive ideal state down the road. I was working toward something, unaware that my life was happening every day in real time.
Making peace with the present hasn’t been easy. And it’s been tough to come to terms with the reality that I won’t do or accomplish everything I planned.
In his excellent book Four Thousand Weeks, Oliver Burkeman eloquently describes this struggle. Burkeman writes,
In the final months of 2022, I finally understood that the point isn't to set myself up for something else, that this isn’t a dress rehearsal. While perhaps overdue, this realization is both valid and welcome.
Conclusion
As you work through your inevitable challenges, consider having some honest conversations with others you trust, writing, and taking appropriate action in the face of uncertainty. Yes, it's uncomfortable, especially at first. But that's probably the best indicator that you're right on track.
Happy holidays to you and your loved ones.
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Every two weeks, I share my thoughts about investing, career transitions, meaningful work, parenting, living intentionally, and other topics that engage me. I'm in my fifties and still trying to figure stuff out.